Jess L asked:
I’ve never talked to him before, and right now I just wanna be friends. But one of my ‘friends’ told his little sister to tell him that I like him, and so she did. I can’t just go up to him and say, Hi and start a conversation, but I really wanna at least be his friend. Any ideas on how I could start up this friendship?
I’ve never talked to him before, and right now I just wanna be friends. But one of my ‘friends’ told his little sister to tell him that I like him, and so she did. I can’t just go up to him and say, Hi and start a conversation, but I really wanna at least be his friend. Any ideas on how I could start up this friendship?
Jess,
This is easy and it starts with a Smile. Smile every time you see him and in couple of days, make that smile glow as you wave him Hi! in the corridor or street. Then in couple of weeks start adding wink to your smile. Find any common activity if you can and just introduce yourself. Actually, you can make him feel more confident and able to approach with boosting his ego. Bring a bottle and ask him to open the cap, or something like that. Keep that smile on always so he feels comfortable to talk to you. Ask him if he would like to do shared study or project, then give him your phone# or email address. Then when alone or even in group, start showing some of your touchy feely side – sit close to him, even innocent High 5′s work great, pat on shoulders or arms as you approach him and show those naughty flattery looks when with him alone…flirt a little, don’t worry, you would open up as the time passes. Then it’d be ok to start giving him a hug as you say goodbye and then start planting a kiss on his cheek when no one is looking. Soon, he would start reciprocating to you and show same emotions.
Actions speak louder than words. Have fun!
Good luck!