chocolate asked:
i fell out with my best mate a few months ago. i havnt spoken to her since as she says she wants nothing to do with me. but ive been very ill and doctors hav told me that they think ive got a brain tumour. i want to tell her becus its made me realise that life’s too short for falling out with ppl. but how do i put this to her in words? what should i exactly say to her!? and how do i go about saying all this to her when she’s soo stubborn and refuses to listen to a word i have to say. and i cant email her becuase i feel this needs to be said to her face to face! omg pls help im confused!
i fell out with my best mate a few months ago. i havnt spoken to her since as she says she wants nothing to do with me. but ive been very ill and doctors hav told me that they think ive got a brain tumour. i want to tell her becus its made me realise that life’s too short for falling out with ppl. but how do i put this to her in words? what should i exactly say to her!? and how do i go about saying all this to her when she’s soo stubborn and refuses to listen to a word i have to say. and i cant email her becuase i feel this needs to be said to her face to face! omg pls help im confused!
tell her life is too short to fight over this stupid thing. Best of luck, mate.
I think you should just call her and tell you what’s wrong. If she were a true friend, she would come to you right away.
I think you put it best
its made me realize that life’s too short for falling out with ppl.
that’s a good way to start.
Try to get her to a coffee shop or another place you liked to hang out one on one. Once you’re there she may not be that cooperative. Start with an apology. Make it known that the falling out is in the past and you want to move on. Then tell her about what the doctors have told you and use the line above. Life is too short for falling out with people.
If she refuses to see you face to face (hopefully she won’t) Then I’d suggested going over to see her. If she doesn’t let you in- try to reason through the door- apologize and make it seem like it’s no ones fault (especially hers)
I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything turns out well.
okay u are having a midlife crisis u need my help if l were u l would:
okay so u said she wont listen to u so send her a message say lm really sick and need to talk to u that should get her attention then when she calls talk to her about how ur really sick and that u want to be friends again she will totally come back lm 92% sure good luck
Meet her in person and say that you are counting your days and you always respected her company.
Make it shoirt and leave, she will get back to you.
All the best and sorry for the Tumor. My prayers for you.