Manda G asked:
I’ve been thinking a lot about a guy i used to date. So, recently i’ve sent him a couple of ‘hello’ text messages. At first he seemed really cool toward me with his replies. Now he seems more relaxed and will ask questions back.
He’s a very shy person, first time we went out he’d been trying to ask me out for months before he plucked up the courage. I’ve grown up a lot since we split, all my doing, I apologised after and he said all was ok, but avoided me totally for a few months.
Well I’m pretty sure he still does like me, but his shyness may be holding him back again.
He’s never ignored a text i’ve sent, so far. How often should i be texting him? I dont want to give up because i think i’m getting through, slowly! which is how i wanted to go.
I dont want to become annoying and overdo the texting, so how often?
Or, should I wait and see if he sends me one?
I’ve been thinking a lot about a guy i used to date. So, recently i’ve sent him a couple of ‘hello’ text messages. At first he seemed really cool toward me with his replies. Now he seems more relaxed and will ask questions back.
He’s a very shy person, first time we went out he’d been trying to ask me out for months before he plucked up the courage. I’ve grown up a lot since we split, all my doing, I apologised after and he said all was ok, but avoided me totally for a few months.
Well I’m pretty sure he still does like me, but his shyness may be holding him back again.
He’s never ignored a text i’ve sent, so far. How often should i be texting him? I dont want to give up because i think i’m getting through, slowly! which is how i wanted to go.
I dont want to become annoying and overdo the texting, so how often?
Or, should I wait and see if he sends me one?
if you text too much, he will think you are hounding him like if you were going out. give him a few days and tex him again.
just send him a text and ask him to meet up with you for a conversation. Then explain him you want another chance. my ex did this exact same thing with me after we have been apart for a year. too bad i already had another girlfriend, she was a little too late.
If your sure he stills likes you and hes shy then keep texting him. He probaly is too shy to send a txt to you 1st, and if you start the conversation its easy for him to talk to you. If you really want to wait and see if he sends you one, go ahead, but if he doesnt .. start txtin him again and ask him about how he feels about you?
Honestly, if he’s shy and you’re sure that he may like you. I’d say you just tell him how you feel. I bet he’ll appreciate it and maybe open up a little more to you. Hope this helps! Good Luck!
Why don’t you just send him a text asking if he still likes you for you like him. Sometimes with a shy guy you can’t wait for him, you hafta be direct.
Text him every 3 days. That way he’ll wonder what you’re up to. He may text you back in the meantime.