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		<title>Comment on How can i make my computer faster? by Jimi</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 00:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
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First make sure that hardware is not outdated. It should not be very very old or primitive. Second, your system should not be full of viruses and spuwares and then one way to speed up your system is to select a good PC optimizer and System cleaner such as reginout from Intel Software Directory</description>
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<p>First make sure that hardware is not outdated. It should not be very very old or primitive. Second, your system should not be full of viruses and spuwares and then one way to speed up your system is to select a good PC optimizer and System cleaner such as reginout from Intel Software Directory</p>
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		<title>Comment on How should I dress when I go to Europe? by steketee weatherill</title>
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		<dc:creator>steketee weatherill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 20:34:04 +0000</pubDate>
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Good luck! Gooooood luck (:</description>
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<p>Good luck! Gooooood luck (:</p>
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		<title>Comment on How should a young lady respect herself and why? by carriehas5</title>
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		<dc:creator>carriehas5</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 08:30:52 +0000</pubDate>
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Honey, you should have asked this question 14 years ago.  
Society today is so focused on sex, it&#039;s a battle between parents and kids just to keep them from turning in the wrong direction.  If a child has grown up with morals and beliefs, you can send her off to school/parties/friend&#039;shouses... )and still not be sure what she will do.  In this case, you are just now wanting to teach her to respect herself.  
She has already formed some decisions and opinions about what she thinks and the pressure from her friends is probably stronger than the pressure and guidance you can give. 
I would suggest talking to her without lecturing.  Tell her that as a girl, you undrstand her need to gorw up and be independent.  Explain to her (without insulting her intellegence) that she surely isn&#039;t knowlegeable in how boys think.  Tell her that if she lets a boy use her body for his pleasur,  it doesn&#039;t make her more grown up or independent.  It only makes her used.
The key in talking to her is to not talk down to her.  Kids respond better when they think the adult doing the talking understnands them.  So let her know that you know how she feels and that since you are older, you want to share with her what you have learned.  Tell her you want to share it because no one shared it with you and you wish someone had.  
She needs to know you care and aren&#039;t just lecturing.  
Remember, put into her what you want her to hear.  She will hear other things also, but she&#039;ll at least have heard the good stuff, too.</description>
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<p>Honey, you should have asked this question 14 years ago.<br />
Society today is so focused on sex, it&#8217;s a battle between parents and kids just to keep them from turning in the wrong direction.  If a child has grown up with morals and beliefs, you can send her off to school/parties/friend&#8217;shouses&#8230; )and still not be sure what she will do.  In this case, you are just now wanting to teach her to respect herself.<br />
She has already formed some decisions and opinions about what she thinks and the pressure from her friends is probably stronger than the pressure and guidance you can give.<br />
I would suggest talking to her without lecturing.  Tell her that as a girl, you undrstand her need to gorw up and be independent.  Explain to her (without insulting her intellegence) that she surely isn&#8217;t knowlegeable in how boys think.  Tell her that if she lets a boy use her body for his pleasur,  it doesn&#8217;t make her more grown up or independent.  It only makes her used.<br />
The key in talking to her is to not talk down to her.  Kids respond better when they think the adult doing the talking understnands them.  So let her know that you know how she feels and that since you are older, you want to share with her what you have learned.  Tell her you want to share it because no one shared it with you and you wish someone had.<br />
She needs to know you care and aren&#8217;t just lecturing.<br />
Remember, put into her what you want her to hear.  She will hear other things also, but she&#8217;ll at least have heard the good stuff, too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How can i make my computer faster? by Eric.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 16:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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The first mistake you made was using norton.
The second mistake you made was not getting rid of it. One computer mag refused to recommend it at all. I only tried it out because it came with my new computer, then I wondered why is my new computer going backwards) haha. I took it (norton) out and away went my computer at warp speed. Get rid of it.</description>
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<p>The first mistake you made was using norton.<br />
The second mistake you made was not getting rid of it. One computer mag refused to recommend it at all. I only tried it out because it came with my new computer, then I wondered why is my new computer going backwards) haha. I took it (norton) out and away went my computer at warp speed. Get rid of it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How should I dress when I go to Europe? by BoringAfternoon</title>
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		<dc:creator>BoringAfternoon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 01:56:25 +0000</pubDate>
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The same things you are wearing in your country. ;)</description>
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<p>The same things you are wearing in your country. <img src='http://www.mainewebsolutions.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on How should I dress when I go to Europe? by Orla C</title>
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		<dc:creator>Orla C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 01:56:17 +0000</pubDate>
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Wear whatever you would wear normally, but take the season and altitude into consideration. Bring a light jacket and scarf in summer, and very warm winter clothing in winter.</description>
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<p>Wear whatever you would wear normally, but take the season and altitude into consideration. Bring a light jacket and scarf in summer, and very warm winter clothing in winter.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How can i make my computer faster? by Pratap</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pratap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 00:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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i have read all most all answer if you Clean the registry, defrag , delete unwanted file it will help you to run you pc fast not internet but you can change the setting of your internet and make it speed just you need to make a 2 file how to do it i have a video on youtube . type how to speed my internet speed ? and search you will get it best of luck</description>
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<p>i have read all most all answer if you Clean the registry, defrag , delete unwanted file it will help you to run you pc fast not internet but you can change the setting of your internet and make it speed just you need to make a 2 file how to do it i have a video on youtube . type how to speed my internet speed ? and search you will get it best of luck</p>
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		<title>Comment on How should I dress when I go to Europe? by Kyle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 03:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
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doesn&#039;t matter.</description>
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<p>doesn&#8217;t matter.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How should a young lady respect herself and why? by beach answerer</title>
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		<dc:creator>beach answerer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 21:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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It sounds like there may be a root to this problem.  You should try to find out WHY she behaves that way.  

Does she feel unaccepted or unvalued at home?  (No offense...)  Try talking to her on her level.  Ask why she does certain things and how they make her feel.  Ask what she thinks she could do to feel the same way, but by doing things that wont get her in trouble.  Maybe if she joined some clubs, either at school or got involved in the community somehow she would feel better about herself and the rest would fall into place.</description>
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<p>It sounds like there may be a root to this problem.  You should try to find out WHY she behaves that way.  </p>
<p>Does she feel unaccepted or unvalued at home?  (No offense&#8230;)  Try talking to her on her level.  Ask why she does certain things and how they make her feel.  Ask what she thinks she could do to feel the same way, but by doing things that wont get her in trouble.  Maybe if she joined some clubs, either at school or got involved in the community somehow she would feel better about herself and the rest would fall into place.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How should a young lady respect herself and why? by Lacey R</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lacey R</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 02:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
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I say that grounding is not going to effect her. You should ***** her, so that the slight sting will remind her that this is not exceptable and will never be.</description>
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<p>I say that grounding is not going to effect her. You should ***** her, so that the slight sting will remind her that this is not exceptable and will never be.</p>
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